So today is our 6th year wedding anniversary. Two kids, midway through our training and still renting a house.
I have come to the conclusion that the only reason celeb couples are (seemingly) happy in their social media pics is because they have minions to do the dirty work. Like yknow if I have someone to mandikan my kids every morning and prepare their breakfast and not shout ‘Lajuuuu, we’re LATE!’ for the umpteenth time every single day, of course I will be a much less grumpy wife/mummy and think my partner is the most awesomest person in the world.
But we work with what we’ve got. And I think we work because our tempers are short-lived. Just like a toddler’s. And though we’re only young in our marriage years, this is what I think works:
Let it out.
Say your peace – especially if you’re in the wrong.
And even if you’re not, let it go.
And never bring it up again.
Happy anniversary, Sayang.